Many of my clients tend to procrastinate when it comes to finalizing their estate planning documents. They struggle over who to appoint as guardians for the kids, or who should be the "back up" executor if the surviving spouse can't act, or who's going to end up with the tool collection. Sometimes these questions can be tough ones and people "freeze up" and stress out over whether or not they're making the right decision.
As the estate planner I'm always concerned that the infamous bus is going to run my clients over while the drafts of the wills sit on my desk, unsigned. So I try to gently nudge my clients along towards finalizing everything.
One factor that I try to impress upon my clients is the fact that their wills are not set in stone; that they should conceptualize their wills as "evolving documents". In other words, as developments occur in the family (if people pass away, someone becomes disabled, someone gets divorced, there's a "falling out", etc.) it is very easy to tweak the documents in order to address the new family situation.
I also emphasize that, thanks to computers, tweaking the documents is very easy and very inexpensive, assuming that the changes are not overly-complicated. I always keep the documents on my computer, so re-printing the documents with small changes and a new date and re-signing everything is awfully easy. And there is nothing exotic about my law practice; this is the case with just about any law practice out there.
So, don't stress out about it too much when you set up your will and other documents. Make the best decision you can given the current circumstances and facts. Then schedule a signing date with your attorney knowing that you can easily change things later if you need to.
And remember that once your documents are signed you will experience a wonderful, liberating "peace-of-mind", and that's what estate planning is all about.
DISCLAIMER: This blog does not offer legal advice, nor does it create an attorney-client relationship. If you need legal advice, consult with a lawyer instead of a blog.
